My mom is always talking about something called “optimism” and I try to listen, but I have to admit, sometimes I get bored and stop listening. But now she told me that March is National Optimism Month, so I decided I should probably figure out what this whole optimism thing is all about anyway.
Turns out, optimism is all about thinking good thoughts…being postive about stuff even when you don’t feel like it. Well geez Mom, I already do that! So now that I know what she’s talking about, I can tell you how to do it, and how to help the kids in your life practice optimism in their daily life. (I still don’t know why she doesn’t just say think good thoughts)
So, it can be really tough to think positive when you’re not feeling positive. Trust me, I know. I just had this really hard math test and it was sooooo hard to think I was going to do well since I didn’t feel like I would. But I tried and tried and ignored my feelings and just made myself think about doing well. It’s kind of hard sometimes, but there are things you can do, and help your children do, that will make a big difference over time.
Keep track of your thoughts – know what you’re thinking. Most of the time we don’t really pay attention to what we think about. In fact, we’ve all heard people say “I didn’t even think about it.” Well, they probably did but they just didn’t know it. They didn’t pay attention to what they were thinking. It’s really important, when you start to think positive, to pay attention to what you are thinking…after all, if you don’t pay attention how will you know if you’re thinking good stuff or not?
Change your thoughts – if you catch yourself thinking something negative, STOP IT! Right then…just stop it and change your thoughts. Tell yourself over and over the opposite of your bad thought. So, if you are thinking you’ll never get it right, stop yourself and say “I know I’ve got this” or “I rock at this” or something else over and over until the bad thought isn’t there anymore and the good thought is the only one you’re thinking.
Reward yourself – when you think good thoughts. It can be really tiring to always think good. It takes a lot of work sometimes, especially if you’re really used to thinking yucky thoughts. So, after you’ve been thinking good stuff for a while, have some ice cream, watch a movie, call a friend, or play a game. Better yet, relax in Savasana and tell yourself it’s because you’ve been so good.
Oh, and by the way, I got a 92% on that math test! Yahoo!!!